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2008 ETO Program

3rd Annual International Conference on
"Engaging The Other:"

The Power of Compassion

September 4-7, 2008    
San Francisco (San Mateo), California USA

Participation is Open To The Public

'08 Presenter Biographicals and Photos
'08 Printable Version of Program
 (6 page pdf)

Information on Fees and Registration - click here
Continuing Education Units (CEUs)

Update:   See Content of ETO '08 Facilitated Dialogue Group Notes

Thursday, September 4

ETO CONFERENCE OPENING and EVENTS 
6:30 pm - 9:30 pm

Greeting, Conference Mission, Announcements, & Introductions:
   Steve Olweean, MA
       
                   

Presentation of Expressive Arts Interpretation of the Conference:
   Deborah Koff-Chapin, BFA

Keynote:  Huston Smith, PhD                     

Keynote:  Marianne Williamson    

All-Conference Interactive Dialogue Experience:
    Len
and Libby Traubman


Friday, September 5

CONCURRENT SESSIONS A

Workshops and Roundtables

Morning   9:00 - 10:30 am

A 1:  "Face-To-Face: Perception of the Other"
This experiential workshop will explore how engaging with another person can affect our self-perception. Through simple art making, dialogue and writing participants will learn how engagement with creative materials enhances our ability to connect and see another person as both unique and deeply connected to ourselves. No previous art experience is necessary and the skills taught in this workshop are transferable to any situation in which a deeper engagement is desired.
Pat Allen, Ph.D., A.T.R.,   (Experiential, Discussion)
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A 2:  "Being Able to Influence the World"
 It is tempting for grassroots groups to feel powerless to influence or change things, whatever they do. Based on the pioneering work of peacemaker Jean Paul Lederach, this workshop focuses on the power within the web of relationships among small groups of people and the influence these groups can wield to do good when they tune into that power
Sally Mahe MEd, MA,
 Sarah Talcott   (Experiential, Demonstration, Discussion)

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A 3:  "The Power of Active Nonviolence in Social Transformation"
Powerlessness is a major problem facing our country today. People see themselves as subjects rather than creators of history. There are many examples of powerful nonviolent movements toward major social change - Gandhi in India, the civil rights movement in the US, the peaceful transformation in South Africa, Solidarity and nonviolent social transformation in eastern Europe, the nonviolent overthrow of Pinochet in Chile and Milosovic in Yugoslavia, the nonviolent resurrection after fraudulent elections in the Ukraine, etc. What can we learn from these movements and what is the power of active nonviolence, and how can we harness it to work for peace, justice and an environmentally sustainable world?
David Hartsough
  (Experiential, Discussion)
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A 4:  "The Art of Peace - Embodying Compassion to Deepen Dialogue"
This session is an experiential exploration of ways to generate compassionate presence for deeply sourced dialogue. For forty years, Chris Thorsen and Richard Moon have combined The Art of Dialogue with the principles and slow motion practices of Aikido, The Art of Peace, for deeply inspired inquiry. Their pioneering work is based in servant leadership development applications in international policy circles, high tech start up companies and large scale corporate transformations. Participants will engage in dialogue while practicing embodiment exercises that will increase their sensitivity to their own feelings while deepening their ability to open compassionately to others views and feelings.
Chris Thorsen, Richard Moon   (Experiential, Movement, Discussion)

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A 5:  "Intergenerational Inheritance of Trauma: Fueling Future Violence"
ROUNDTABLE
- What is the effect of unresolved individual and communal trauma on the ethos of a society and culture and the development of victim identity, and how can this set the stage for future polarization, violence and war?
- What happens to a society - short and long term - when the energy of fear, victimization, and revenge become systemic, and at times manipulated?
- How can we recognize these dynamics, and what kinds of interventions can positively influence them?

Stanley Krippner, PhD., Benina Gould, PhD, Skip Robinson, PhD, Kirk Schneider, PhD, Ahmad Hijazi, MA


CONCURRENT SESSIONS B

FACILITATED DIALOGUE GROUPS
(Conference-wide break-out groups)

Late Morning  10:45 am - 12:15 pm
(All participants self-select one of several themed dialogue groups)

One of 4 opportunities during the conference for all participants to engage in open agenda dialogues to share learning, explore concepts and related issues, process experiences, network, and brainstorm practical applications and collaboration. Each group is framed around a different general theme woven throughout the program, and dialogue occurs within the general context of that theme. Themes are repeated and participants can choose to follow one theme or different themes in each time period. In addition to facilitators, scribes in each group record content highlights. Information is compiled and posted daily to CBI's web blog, allowing participants an evolving overview of what is brewing in the community from day to day to promote deeper dialogue as the conference progresses. The information is also included in conference proceedings and outcomes, and utilized for future planning.

~ Lunch ~
12:15 - 1:30 pm

 ALL-CONFERENCE ASSEMBLY
Gathering of all conference participants to check in as an interactive learning community.

 1:30 - 2:00 pm

CONCURRENT SESSIONS C

Workshops and Roundtables

Afternoon   2:00 - 3:30 pm

C 1:  "Psychology at the Large Scale: the Design and Transformation of Whole societies"
This presentation will feature Spiral Dynamics, a biopsychosocial and value system driven framework and illustrate its role in diagnosing and defusing "us -vs- them" polarity. It will identify eight different types or variations of worldviews, and will uncover the "DNA-like" Master Code that shapes cultural emergence, conflict, transitions, and transformation. It will describe the conditions for large scale societal change which will guide decision-makers to know what to do, when, in what manner, with which resources. Finally, It will address the critical issues with regard to nation-states, large cultural and global movements with a focus on a major Nation Building design and application in Palestine.
Don Edward Beck, PhD., Elza Maalouf, JD.  (Lecture, Experiential, Discussion)
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C 2:  "The Tibetan NonViolent Action Movement"
Over the last 50 years under the leadership of HH the Dalai Lama, and with recent events in particular, the Tibetan freedom movement has been a movement of nonviolent action, requiring wisdom, compassion, focus, networking and, most importantly, unity. This session explores the beliefs, perspective, and skills necessary to address these challenges. It also demonstrates the necessity for such a movement, with members trained in nonviolence and a deep clarity of purpose, and for raising awareness of central issues, objectives, and requirements by highlighting it in the media to bring constructive international pressure for a positive resolution. Based on the belief that Nonviolence is the only way to resolve any kind of conflict, and with the continued leadership of HH the Dalai Lama, this approach will be shown to be the most viable path to success in resolving the Tibet issue and leading to a new, more compassionate world.
Geshe Gendun Gyatso, Tashi Wangdu    (Experiential, Lecture, Discussion)
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C 3:  "Tools for Cross Cultural Understanding"
Because we live in an increasingly interdependent world, intercultural awareness and effective cross cultural communication skills are critical for personal and professional relationships. Understanding and appreciating intercultural differences ultimately promotes clearer communication, breaks down barriers, builds trust, strengthens relationships, opens horizons and yields tangible results. In this interactive session we will explore some key tools and practices for working with people different from us, whether different cultures, religious groups, ideological perspectives, etc.
Kimberly Weichel, Devi Gursahaney  (Experiential, Discussion)
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C 4:  "Media Images of The Other: Framing Our Selves"  
ROUNDTABLE
How do we portray each to the other, and what is the power of these images? This roundtable explores how images of The Other are depicted in various media, both currently and historically, and the effect they can have - consciously and unconsciously - on the individual and society in shaping how we relate to each other. Modes considered are TV, movies, radio, print, photos, art, plays, songs, folk stories, jokes, the Internet, etc.
Maha ElGenaidi,
Emmanuel Vaughan-Lee, Michael Wolfe
Moderator: Fred Luskin, PhD
___________________________________________

C 5:  "Challenging Dialogues: Personal Journeys of Engaging the Other and Inventing the New Future"
ROUNDTABLE
An exchange of experience among individuals actively engaged with bi-community dialogues between Arab Muslims and Christians, and Israeli and other Jews, to co-create bridges of unprecedented understanding and social outcomes. Roundtable members share their personal stories -- initiatives, difficulties, successes, lessons learned, hope, and unique rewards of cultivating personal relationships with The Other.
Len Traubman, Melek Nasr-Totah, Eryn Kalish, MC, Leah Green, MA
Moderater:  Libby Traubman


CONCURRENT SESSIONS D

FACILITATED DIALOGUE GROUPS
(Conference-wide break-out groups)

Late Afternoon  3:45 - 5:15 pm
(All participants self-select one of several themed dialogue groups)
( * See complete description in SESSION B )

~ Dinner ~
5:15 - 6:45 pm


EVENING PLENARY ROUNDTABLE:  
7:00 - 8:45 pm

"The Development of Identity: Our Personal and Historical Relationship with The Other"
- What is the role of The Other in the process of establishing our personal and communal identities, and belief systems related to these?
- How can this role take on negative characteristics, and how can it be transformed from negative to positive?
Maureen O'Hara, PhD, Don Edward Beck, PhD, Sal Nunez, JD, Michael Nagler, PhD
Moderaters: Aftab Omer, PhD, and Steve Olweean, MA

EVENING EVENTS   (concurrent options):  
9:00 - 10:30 pm

  1) Interactive Theatre Image Workshop: Mukti Khanna PhD, and
        
Shellee Davis

  2) "Encounter Point" Film and interactive dialogue: Irene Nasser, MA
          Just Vision
 

Saturday, September 6

MORNING PLENARY ROUNDTABLE:  
9:00 - 10:45 am

"Interfaith Harmony and Peace: The Abrahamic Journey to Peace"
- What are the most practical, effective, and direct ways for Christianity, Islam, and Judaism to create harmony for each other on this planet?
Shaykh Hamza Yusuf, Chaplain Bruce Feldstein, MD, Reverend Paul Chaffee
Moderators: James O'Dea, PhD and Louise Diamond, PhD

CONCURRENT SESSIONS E

Workshops and Roundtables

Late Morning   11:00 am - 12:30 pm

E 1:   "Only A World Away"
As a new world of different cultures enters into the workforce, what is needed to begin this journey together? How does one come to appreciate all the myriad of new perceptions and insights, resources and skills? Where does one begin? How does one avoid making mistakes or saying something offensive? And as we move into a global economy, what now needs to be understood and respected? How does one come to appreciate and make use of all of the differences in language, customs, and beliefs? Discover the tools and mindsets needed to sustain this new relationship and partnership. Learn how to listen and to respond cross-culturally, so that each person feels valued and appreciated, supported and acknowledged. For in reality, we are really, only a world away.
Lee Mun Wah, MA, MS   (Experiential, Demonstration, Discussion)
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E 2:  "Compassionate Listening: Rehumanizing the “Other” in Conflict"
In every human interaction, whether as mentor, friend, family member, co-worker, leader or social activist, the practice of Compassionate Listening supports us to speak and listen from our hearts – rehumanizing the “other” even when we are hurt, angry, scared or shut down. In this experiential session, we will explore a few core practices of Compassionate Listening and see how they serve us in heated conflict and polarization.
Leah Green, MA  (Experiential, Discussion) ____________________________________________

E 3:  "Wisdom Pathways to Compassion: Walking An Ethical And Moral Life"
ROUNDTABLE
- What common resources are present in spiritual and philosophical traditions that nurture compassion, mercy, forgiveness, and love, to cultivate a consciousness of peace and result in a common code of ethics and moral principles of conduct in our relationship with others.
- How can these traditions best cooperate in being vehicles for establishing universal standards of basic human worth and goodness, and universal standards of behavior toward each other that directly reflect this.
Geshe Gendun Gyatso, Imam Zaid Shakir, Melissa Nelson, PhD, Eleanor Williams-Curry
Moderator: Sandra Friedman, MS
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E 4:  "Environmental Sustainability: When the Earth is Our Partner "
ROUNDTABLE
- How does seeing the Earth as 'the Other' impact our world, and what can we do about it?
Marc Pilisuk, PhD, Luisah Teish, Osprey Orielle Lake, Lorin Troderman,
Moderater: Alvaro Cedeno, JD

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E 5:  "20,000 Dialogues"
One of the great conversations of our time revolves around how mainstream Americans and the Muslim world come to understand each other in the next few years. The mis-understandings around this are the basis for enormous challenges in our society, our foreign policy, our economy, our sense of security, our world. This session will present 20,000 Dialogues, a "bottom up" approach to interfaith dialogue. Participants will engage in group discussions, watch selected film clips, and leave with practical tools for dialogue in their living room, congregation, and community.
Daniel Tutt
 (Discussion, media)

~ Lunch ~
12:30 - 2:00 pm

 ALL-CONFERENCE ASSEMBLY
Gathering of all conference participants to check in as an interactive learning community.

2:00 - 2:30 pm

BI-PLENARY ROUNDTABLES F
Afternoon  2:45 - 5:00 pm 
(* This is a combined 2-part session)

     90 minute Roundtables: 2:45 - 4:15 pm
   
 Follow-Up Dialogue Groups Immediately After
: 4:15 - 5:00 pm *

F 1:   "Looking for The Enemy Within: Society and Paranoia"
Exploring dynamics of fear-based public paranoia and generalized hyper-vigilance arising from perceived "outside" threat, such as war and terrorism, that can lead to marginalizing and oppressing targeted groups within a society. Included is the role of overt and covert manipulation of fear to galvanize a society. Although these dynamics are universal, the US example will be explored. Roundtable members represent the Japanese-American internment experience during WW II, and also the current experiences of the Arab/Muslim-American and Hispanic-American communities (as well as non-Western-looking ethnic-American communities in general), that has similarities with early stages of the WW II dynamics in the US.

Andy Noguchi, PhD, Ihsan Alkhatib, Esq., MA
, James Hernandez
Moderators: Fred Luskin, PhD and Sandra Friedman, MS
____________________________________________

F 2:  "Good Governance....Of The People, By The People, For The People"
- How can we practice democracy in ways that transcend polarization and foster inclusion and mutual understanding?
Corinne McLaughlin, PhD, Louise Diamond, PhD, Alvaro Cedeno, JD, Tashi Wangdu
Moderators: Sen John Vasconcellos, Gay Barfield, PhD

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* FOLLOW-UP DIALOGUE GROUPS  4:15 - 5:00 pm
(held immediately following each roundtable in the same rooms)

Following each of these two bi-plenary roundtables, participants remain in the same rooms to break-up into small group dialogues for more focused processing of roundtable content and to explore practical applications.

~ Dinner ~
5:00 - 6:30 pm

 ALL-CONFERENCE ASSEMBLY
Gathering of all conference participants to check in as an interactive learning community.

6:30 - 7:00 pm

CONCURRENT SESSIONS G

FACILITATED DIALOGUE GROUPS
(Conference-wide break-out groups)

7:00 - 8:30 pm
(All participants self-select one of several themed dialogue groups)
( * See complete description in SESSION B )

EVENING EVENTS   (concurrent options)  
8:30 - 10:00 pm
  

  1)  Bali Institute for Global Renewal presents an evening of music,       storytelling, poetry, and surprise performances. Join our poetry       slam. Spend an enchanting evening as a global citizen and enjoy       muticultural experiences and more!  Luisah Teish, Lyla Johnston,   
      Balinese performers, and other surprise guests.

  2)  Our Earth We Share: Transforming our Relationship to Diverse
       Cultures and Nature through Images and Stories.
A rejuvenating        evening of art, film, and spoken word celebrating our living Earth,        cultural diversity and new ecologic ethics.  Osprey Orielle Lake

  3)  ETO Open Mic Performances 2:  Sharing Music, Song, and Fun

Sunday, September 7

CONCURRENT SESSIONS H

FINAL FACILITATED DIALOGUE GROUPS
(Conference-wide break-out groups)

Morning  9:00 am - 10:30 am
(All participants self-select one of several themed dialogue groups)
( * See complete description in SESSION B )
  * This last session of dialogue groups is intended to promote action planning, collaboration, and products to carry from this gathering into our communities, and to facilitate continuing the dialogue process beyond the conference.

ALL-CONFERENCE ASSEMBLY
10:45 am - 12:30 pm
Reporting in from each Dialogue Group to Full Conference
and pulling together the conference experience
____________________________________

CONFERENCE CLOSING
12:30 pm - 1:30 pm
Summary, Outcomes, Collaboration, Action Plans,
and Where We Go From Here.


(Lunch Follows)
____________________________________

~ Lunch ~
1:30 - 2:30 pm

ADDITIONAL PRESENTERS

Dialogue Group Facilitation and Mediation Team Members not listed above
       Jean Marc Randin, PhD       Katherine Oweegon
  
     Ken Homer                             Lynda Smith  
 
      Ryan Feinstien                       Sigel Shoham
       Carol Glaser                           John Glaser 

Special Features of the
2008 ETO Conference

IN-PROCESS EXPERIENCES
 
   
 Evolving Expressive Arts Interpretation of the Conference
   
       Deborah Koff-Chapin, BFA

      Tibetan Buddhist Sand Mandala Ritual -  a fascinating spiritual,
          cultural, and artistic event.

          Geshe Gendun Gyatso and Tibetan Buddhist monks from
          Nyanang Phegyling Monastery in Swayanbhu, Katmandu
          Nepal:
Topten Lama, Chhiring Dorje Sherpa, Nayduk Gurung
          Ram Bahadur Tamang Lama
      __________________________

MEDIA / ART EXHIBITS   
     Touch Drawings
 (an evolving exhibit of interpretive drawings
                                      by Deborah Koff-Chapin, created during
                                      the conference inspired by activities and events
                                      as they emerge)

     Tibetan Buddhist Sand Mandala

     See Us From Your Heart: An Exhibition of Children's Paintings
        from the Tulkarem Refugee camp and from Israel.

                        ~ Raising awareness, promoting hope,
                     and inspiring active cooperation for change ~

        An art exhibit of paintings created in June of 2008 by 25 Palestinian
         refugee children from Tulkarem in the West Bank and 25 Jewish and
        Arab children from Wahat al Salam - Neve Shalom (WAS-NS) during         an overnight art workshop at the Oasis of Peace Primary School in the
        WAS-NS village. The village is home to 54 Jewish and Arab families
        in Israel who have lived, worked, and raised their children together
        since 1976, in a shared quest to promote equality, mutual respect, and
        cooperation within the community and beyond.    

                            (Additional Exhibit Space Available)
      __________________________

 EVENING SOCIAL-CULTURAL EVENTS, EXPERIENCES,
   
   and COMMUNITY ACTIVITIES

 E-CONFERENCING
 INTERNET CONFERENCE BLOG
     
  In-Process Internet Blog to post conference proceedings.
 RICH NETWORKING and ACTION PLANNING 
 INTENTIONAL CROSS-CULTUTRAL COMMUNITY
 ON-SITE MEDIATION SERVICE
  CONFERENCE SESSION RECORDINGS - Audio & Video
           
(Hungry Mind Recordings)
  ON-SITE BOOKSTORE  (Kepler's Bookstore)
  PROFESSIONAL BOOK EXHIBIT  (Library of Social Science)
  DISPLAYS and EXHIBITS (*Additional Exhibit Space Available)

2009 ETO Conference Information:

Main ETO Conference Page
FEES and REGISTRATION
Site and Travel Information
Program Overview, Guidelines for Proposals and Dialogue
Presenter Proposal Form
Submit by July 1
Dialogue Group Facilitator Application Form
 
'09 ETO Program Sessions
(to be posted)
'09 List of Presenters
(to be posted)
'09 Presenter Biographicals
and Photos
(to be posted)
Continuing Education Credits (CECs)

Press Room
1 page Color Conference Flyer (in pdf)
1 page Black & White Conference Flyer (in pdf)
1 page Color Conference Poster - 8 1/2 X 14 size (in pdf)

Conference Staff Contacts for information
Presenter Proposal Form (pdf) Submit by July 1

Update:   See Content of ETO '08 Facilitated Dialogue Group Notes

Advertize and Display:
   Advertize in On-Site Conference Program
   Advertize on Participant Tote Bag
   Exhibit Table Space is Available


FROM OUR ETO ARCHIVES:
See Previous 2008, 2007 and 2006
ETO Proceedings & Outcomes below

Previous 2008 ETO Conf. Information:
      
Touch Drawing interpretation of ETO Conferences * 
                (* Touch Drawing images of available for purchase)
       '08 Conference Evaluation Form - We invite '08 conference
            participants to download and submit an evaluation form
            
 (see instructions at bottom of form for submitting).
       Content of '08 Daily Open Dialogue Break-Out Sessions
       '08 On-Site Video Interviews
       '08 Video and Audio Conference Recording of Sessions
            Available at
 
Hungry Mind Recordings   
    
   Previous 2008 ETO Program Sessions
    
   Previous 2008 Presenter Biographicals and Photos
    
   Previous 2008 List of Presenters
   
    Subscribe to Common Bond Institute E-Newsletter and
             stay connected and informed of efforts, outcomes, and
             and opportunities for dialogue and cooperation.

Previous 2007 ETO Conf. Information:
     Touch Drawing interpretation of '06 ETO Conference*
          (* Touch Drawing images available for purchase)
     '07 Recorded Sessions
    
Previous 2007 ETO Program Sessions
     Previous 2007 Presenter Biographicals and Photos
    
Previous List of 2007 Presenters

Previous 2006 ETO Conf. Information:
     Touch Drawing interpretation of '06 ETO Conference*
          (* Touch Drawing images available for purchase)

    
 '06 Recorded Sessions by Conference Recording Services
    
Content of '06 Daily Open Dialogue Break-Out Sessions
    
Previous 2006 ETO Program Sessions
     Previous 2006 Presenter Biographicals and Photos
    
Previous List of 2006 Presenters

 

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